问问自己，谁是真的在乎你

For a long time, it has been a person in the solitude of the dissociation, has created his own paranoid temperament, stubborn, stubborn character. Now I have a home, a lover who has been with me for a long time, and has a normal life... Thinking about it, I have summarized a lot of... 

Life pressure is not suitable for people, so love needs both sides to nurture and nurture, and marriage needs to communicate, trust and treat each other sincerely. Let us be grateful to life, grateful to all who love you. In the final analysis, women are considerate and considerate, and men are conscientious. This is the root of the source of love! 

In fact each of us has his own life and way of life, the emotional values are different, some people off, some people the derailment, also make different life experiences and love marriage aura. Love originally didn't shelf life in reality and ever make love in reality is not value, bread collapse type love let butterfly lovers, originally found that the world has a lofty and the existence of a long, it is no wonder that a chaotic world people no longer believe in love. Everyone has his or her own position in life, not who owes whom, or who is who. The higher one will only make the distance go farther and farther. In an egalitarian society, the communication between husband and wife should be based on mutual respect, understanding, empathy and tolerance. To treat people with the truth, to give to people, to be grateful for love, selfless dedication. Don't leave your heart out of your heart when it's too late. In fact, sensitive topics, there is no right or wrong, only understanding different. Marriage also needs to be run, must be invested, can be gained. Sometimes the noise is also a kind of love, but this love is polished by life, it has lost its original perfection. So it is most important to have the talent of loving now. 

Always appreciate such a kind of love marriage, there is not too much rumbling of the fiery spirit, but has the feeling of a thin water. There is not too many vows, but there is a simple and unpretentious life, which may be the true meaning of "holding hands and growing old together with your children." In the wind and rain, lost and lost, there is a pair of your hands, they hold you tightly, accompany you through all the rainy and sunny days, until the end of life. In the ordinary marriage life, there are not so many qiongyao love at first love, there is not so much sweetness to cry, the pain of the fall of the love story. In the red dust, we play the part of ourselves, some of the ordinary people who live and die. 

A little bit of a happy life itself, you need to deal with the chaimi sauce and vinegar tea. 

In the real world, the relationship between two people is very important, but there is no economic relationship, how to maintain the relationship between family and family? Family love is priceless, but how can you cultivate the next generation and filial generation without any economic foundation? In the face of reality, the feeling is very weak, can not be a meal, but the solid economic foundation can let you eat and wear warm, only have the energy to consider the feeling. Have the economic origin to have the idle feeling to go to lukewarm husband and wife affection, if have no economy connect to live to be a problem, still have what mood to be very lovey-dovey? Affection is important for emotion. In reality, the economy matters. Every day's busyness and expense are better for everyone in the family. To live better, the economy is the precondition and the guarantee. So in real life, the economy tends to overpower sentiment. Real emotion is under the pressure of economic inflation, modern people are true and false, and wear masks to live. To worry about money, to worry about money, to be mad about money, to be rich like money, to be rich and to be poor. Behind the emotion is the economic creation, the money behind is the emotional support. Reality is the reality, the economy is not omnipotent, but in the real life without the economy is absolutely impossible, rich and unsentimental can pretend to be very happy, it is very difficult to have feelings and money to pretend to be happy. The poor husband and wife, the life of the economy of marriage life empty, the end of the work! So the relationship is the stamen, the life is soil, the economy is the fertilizer, the sentiment is water, the economy is blood, the blood is dissolved in the water is thicker than the water. Oxygen abundance can make life more exciting! Does it matter? Does the family matter? Indeed. But when the crisis of family and family came, it was the economy that saved everything. In reality, there is no economy, no economy and what kind of spiritual enjoyment? The feeling is the sky, the economy is the earth, the heaven and earth gestation the life hundred states! Love is a thousand years of deep red wine. You can't afford to drink without the economy. Even if the feeling is stronger than jin jian, no economy how diamond heart, I will remain forever? The absence of feeling, the existence of all is meaningless. Economy is very important, without it can not create the happiness of life, can not fulfill the responsibility of supporting the family, can not let the feeling live more moist. Therefore, the economic view, the sentiment view, which weighs? In the balance of life, love and economy depend on each other, so long as the balance is not weightless, all life will become happy and beautiful.